Many children long for a pet, but for parents it's a big decision. A pet can change how the whole family functions for years. Parents often consider when a child is ready, which animal to choose, and what the care involves. We're happy to share our experience with you.
Is your child ready for a pet?
It's not just about the child's age, but mainly about their maturity and willingness to share responsibilities. Young children under 6 cannot be the primary caregivers—they are not capable of regular care and don't understand an animal's needs. From 7–8 years, children can handle simple tasks, but the main responsibility remains with the parent.
Motivation should be lasting, not impulsive. A child should show interest in a pet over a longer period and be able to take on small household duties. If a child consistently avoids responsibility, it's not yet the right time to get a pet.
With severe allergies, frequent changes to your routine, or if adults are unwilling to take on part of the care, we recommend postponing getting a pet. Consider the environment you'd bring the pet into. An aquarium with a fish fits even in a small apartment, but a dog might be too much. Finances should also be part of the decision. Larger pets such as a dog or cat can be costly beyond the purchase price.
Benefits of a pet for children
A pet develops emotional intelligence—it teaches children empathy and the ability to recognize the needs of others. It helps manage stress, provides a sense of safety, and helps create family rituals. Children with pets tend to be more physically active (especially when caring for a dog), and they also learn responsibility, cooperation, and planning.
A pet makes it easier to build connections and helps reduce fear of animals. Working together in the family to care for a pet strengthens family bonds and teaches children to respect rules.
Which pet should you choose?
Dog: Suitable for active families and school-age children. Requires a lot of attention, time, and exercise. Choose the breed to match your child's temperament and your household's lifestyle.
Cat: More independent than a dog, ideal for apartments, but also needs regular care. Some breeds are more suitable for children—choose calm, affectionate types.
Rodents (hamsters, guinea pigs, rabbits): A good first pet that lets a child practice responsibility. Be aware of their short lifespans—your child may face a loss soon.
Fish: Suitable for households with limited space or for allergy sufferers. An aquarium needs regular maintenance, which can be more complex and demanding than it seems.
Reptiles, turtles, birds: Specific requirements and longer lifespans—best for experienced keepers and older children.
Always decide based on your child's age and maturity and your time and space constraints. You can also ask around what pets other families have, or consult a pet store.
What does daily pet care involve?
A pet needs routine care: feeding, cleaning, walking, and play if needed. A dog needs to be walked at least twice a day; a cat needs a clean litter box and attention. Rodents need regular feeding and bedding changes; an aquarium must be kept clean. Share duties among household members. Small children can add water; older ones can clean the cage or bed. Always be clear about who handles what, and plan for care during vacations, illness, or other exceptional situations.
How much does a pet cost?
Getting a pet is just the beginning. Ongoing costs include regular food, supplies, vaccinations, deworming, emergency veterinary care, and possibly pet insurance.
Add up the approximate yearly costs:
- Dog/cat: several thousand CZK per year; some breeds even more (vaccinations, quality food, beds, carrier, toys)
- Rodents: tens to hundreds of CZK per month (bedding, food, sawdust)
- Fish/aquarium: an initial investment (aquarium, filtration, decorations), then around a hundred CZK per month
You must also meet legal obligations: vaccinations, and for a dog, registration and possible municipal fees.
Potential risks and complications
Allergies are common—if someone in the family is allergic, get tested first. For allergy sufferers, fish or hypoallergenic dog breeds may be more suitable, though it's still wise to be prepared for complications.
Health risks (bites) can be minimized by supervising your child when interacting with the pet. Always explain to the child how to handle the animal.
Changes in the family (divorce, moving, a new baby) affect pet care. Have a plan for who will take responsibility if routines change.
The pet's death can be hard for a child—but it is also an opportunity to teach them to cope with loss and accept life's realities.
Pet vs. interactive toy
If you're unsure, consider interactive plush toys, robot pets, or adoption sponsorship instead of a live pet. These options are especially suitable for allergy sufferers, young children, or households short on time or space. Robot pets let a child practice care and responsibility, though without the emotional experience a real animal offers. Visits to shelters or animal clubs/activities are also great alternatives.
Involving your child in pet care
Let your child take part in age-appropriate care. It's important to build responsibility and consistency, ideally using simple charts or task lists. Supervise, but don't be afraid to gradually entrust more duties to older children. Care must not be a punishment—motivate with praise and evaluate together what needs improvement. Include the pet in family activities. The result can be a healthy relationship with living creatures and stronger family bonds.
Decide wisely, care with heart
A pet can bring significant benefits to your child and family: growth in responsibility, empathy, a healthy lifestyle, and family togetherness. At the same time, always consider your child's maturity and your own capacity—time, finances, and space. If you're not sure, try interactive toys first, visit shelters, and educate children about animals' needs. Children with a pet are more likely to grow into caring and responsible adults.