Family vacations and traveling with young children can be a wonderful experience, but without proper preparation also a very demanding one. You surely know the moments when a small child cries in the car or on the plane, and parents try unsuccessfully to soothe them. Don't despair! We're happy to share our tips on how best to prepare for traveling with children so you can handle every trip calmly, comfortably, and above all with joy.
1. Planning a trip with young children
When planning a vacation with a child, the choice of destination plays a crucial role. So how do you choose a summer vacation when you have a small child? If you're driving, choose places within five hours or split the route with an overnight stop along the way. For flight destinations, keep the flight length in mind - shorter routes are usually more suitable, though you can manage longer flights with the right preparation.
Consider the climate - an environment that is too hot and humid may not be suitable for very young children. Always check the infrastructure at your destination, the availability of hospitals and healthcare, hygiene standards, and read reviews.
Traveling outside the peak season has many advantages, especially fewer people, lower prices, and a more pleasant climate.
I recommend choosing a place that is safe and family-friendly. Find out in advance whether your accommodation has kids' corners, a children's pool (paddling pool), high chairs, cribs, etc. All of this will make traveling with a child much easier.
2. Checklist and packing for trips with children
Putting together a practical list will greatly simplify packing and getting ready for the trip. Always add to your carry-on spare clothes, diapers, toiletries, a few toys and your child's favorite book. Don't forget a first-aid kit.
Minimize the number of bags by buying some items at your destination. Pack the things that are hard to buy, such as a favorite pacifier or toy, but shampoos or diapers can usually be bought on site.
3. Health and safety preparation
We recommend taking out good travel insurance for the whole family. Check whether you need vaccinations and any other recommendations from public-health officials for your destination. Equip your travel first-aid kit thoroughly, especially with medicines for fever and nausea. Prevent motion sickness with diet adjustments; only give medication after consulting your pediatrician.
If your child is old enough, try talking about the trip in advance. Explain what you'll do and show pictures of the destination or of the airplane and car. Older children can plan activities themselves and choose the toys they want to take with them.
4. Traveling by car with young children
Always use a car seat appropriate for your child's age. Installation must be precise and safe. Check the seating ergonomics, the comfort of the headrest, and the belt attachment.
Break the car journey into shorter segments with regular breaks. Avoid rush hours; travel in the morning or evening, when children handle transfers better thanks to their natural sleep rhythm. Keep hygiene items, diapers, and snacks within easy reach.
Favorite toys for the car include interactive books, magnetic games, coloring pads, or small plush toys. For older children you can prepare a playlist of favorite stories or audiobooks.
If nausea strikes, open a window for fresh air, pull over, and help your child.
5. Traveling by plane
Many parents prefer short direct flights without connections. However, if you're traveling far, a layover can instead provide a welcome break, when the child can run around the airport and stretch a bit. We recommend booking tickets as early as possible and always choosing aisle seats or seats at emergency exits, where you'll have more space. Families can also make use of special priority seating that some airlines offer. Always check the conditions for traveling with children in advance directly on the carrier's website. If you're traveling with an infant, find out the options for taking a stroller on board and what amount of baby foods and drinks is allowed.
Always arrive at the airport with time to spare. You'll have time for a calm passage through security, changing your child, refreshments, and a moment of play or rest before boarding.
Pack your carry-on well. Don't forget to have plenty of diapers and wet wipes on hand in case of emergencies. Trash bags and hand sanitizer are practical too. Pack spare clothes - not only for the child, but also for yourself, as feeding or changing can lead to mishaps.
A few favorite toys or books that will easily keep your child occupied. Popular options include magnetic books, sticker albums, or water-reveal coloring books. Don't forget snacks in the form of your child's favorites , cookies, or fruit pouches. If you're breastfeeding, you should do so during takeoff and landing to prevent ear pain caused by pressure changes. For older children, a small lollipop or candy works for the same reason. A practical accessory is a large yet packable blanket or a thin scarf you can use to cover the child during sleep or to create privacy while breastfeeding.
There are situations that are hard to avoid even with careful preparation, especially ear pain, a restless child, boredom, fatigue, or crying. Be ready to handle these situations calmly and with empathy. If the child starts crying uncontrollably during the flight, stay calm and begin addressing it step by step. Offer a drink, food, a pacifier, a toy, or simply close contact. Try briefly surprising your little passenger with different activities; this can improve their mood and divert attention. If possible, you can take a walk with them along the aisle. If the child isn't feeling well, don't hesitate to ask the cabin crew for help - they have experience with similar situations and can, for example, provide cold compresses, another bag, or a place where you can be with your child in quiet away from other passengers for a moment.
It's important to realize that children simply sometimes cry, and most passengers will understand if they see you handling the situation calmly and considerately. Your composure is the key to your child's comfort.
Every trip with a small child is a challenge, but with thorough preparation it's possible to make these moments much easier and enjoy them together without stress. Remember that the memories you create on your trips together will remain a wonderful part of your life and your children's lives.
So have a safe journey and wonderful experiences to your whole family!